Who is Grace Loudon?
She is the owner of the Everwind Realm and estates…
To some she is an angel…
To most she is the devil in disguise…
It all started when Grace announced that she would rebuild Everwind and she was recruiting leaders for her sims. She ‘hired’ many people and let them do their thing without giving them any feed-back about what her idea for HER roleplay sim. Many raceleaders DID their thing and the group was growing. Many events were held. People were enjoying themselves.
At that time I had my own Information&Events group for the medieval/Fantasy roleplay. It was growing fast and had about 500 active members. Grace had a group as well but was not active. So I offered to merge both groups cuz most it would be useless to have 2 of the same groups. She agreed and I merged my group with hers and I became a co-owner.
WHAT A STUPID MISTAKE WAS THAT! Grace started to use the group for her own personal wars… Some sims weren’t allowed to post notices and members were ejected because she has a personal problem with them.
Tswei: “Everwind and Medi-Fantasy Events & Information are Two seperate groups , One is a roleplay sim and the other is for ALL Roleplay sims of Medievl Fantasy Events.
in neither of these groups was a rule broken by Tsewi Erien , the owner became hostle and upset because it was brought to her attatition about her OWN rules of being nice to others and NOT resort to the level of name calling which she did with someone. All Tsewi did was point this out and for this the owner of the sim Everwind and co owner of Medi-Fantasy Events & Information banned Tsewi Erien from both groups. Upon this Banning her Second life partner Imed Tsewi and said she was Banned from Everwind where Tsewi told him that Grace Loudon had already Banned her , he then called her an Idiot” .
[20:13] Grace Loudon: You have been ejected from 'Medi-Fantasy Events & Information' by Grace Loudon.
[20:17] Tsewi Eiren: you can eject me from the sim but you CAN NOT eject me from Medi-Fantasy Events & information
[20:17] Tsewi Eiren: I have NOt BROKEN Any Rules
[20:17] Tsewi Eiren: nor Have I broken a Rule in Everwind.
[21:15] Sean Devin: You have been ejected from 'Everwind' by Sean Devin.
[21:17] Tsewi Eiren: your a little too late on that one Grace has already done that
[21:17] Tsewi Eiren: but that is ok , I did NOT break any rules
[21:18] Sean Devin: Muted.. Idiot.. Bye!
This is what happened in the EW groupchat… and please tell me where Tsewi did something wrong…
[19:45] Talen Braumley: is esme, graces other avatar online?
[19:46] Janet Rothmanay: Given that Grace herself is DJing, I'd imagine not.
[19:46] Sean Devin: No Esme is a fraud all the way around
[19:46] Talen Braumley: ok
[19:46] Janet Rothmanay: Oh lovely...
[19:58] Talen Braumley: grace just said here one sec
[19:58] Kelly Heron: Grace said what?
[19:59] Talen Braumley: why wont you answer me?
[19:53] Grace Loudon: Child - why don't you grow up? I don't have time for crap like this from you.
[19:54] Talen Braumley: excuse me!
[19:54] Talen Braumley: i dont have to for you not answering me
[19:54] Grace Loudon: Idiot
[19:54] Talen Braumley: what did i do?
[19:55] Talen Braumley: i thought you were a nice person but now i know better
[19:55] Grace Loudon: [19:55] Talen Braumley is typing...
[19:55] Grace Loudon: [19:55] Talen Braumley is typing...
[19:55] Grace Loudon: [19:55] Talen Braumley is typing...
[19:55] Talen Braumley: ...
[19:55] Talen Braumley: what...
[19:56] Talen Braumley: well fine then you know i have very little friends and umm well to be honest i thought we were on the road to friendship but i guess i was i guess you thought i was just a stupid child
[19:59] Talen Braumley: there read it
[19:59] Janet Rothmanay: Pretty sure that paste is a violation of TOS....
[19:59] Talen Braumley: what is TOS
[20:00] Janet Rothmanay: Terms of Service
[20:00] Talen Braumley: oops
[20:00] Talen Braumley: well all i did was say can i have a job and she is like child i dont have time
[20:01] blayne Bluebird just logged on: Whats going on now
[20:01] Grace Loudon: What a cow
[20:01] Talen Braumley: SHUT UP
[20:01] blayne Bluebird: sorry. . .
[20:01] Vilen Guardian: lmfao
[20:01] Talen Braumley: not you blayne
[20:01] Grace Loudon: For the record...my alts are Claire Bellow, Brumhilde Hynes, Troy Perian and Rustic Alter - that's it - NPCs - Claire you hear from now and again. There are no others.
[20:02] Talen Braumley: oh my god
[20:02] Talen Braumley: so umm
[20:02] blayne Bluebird: jesus woman
[20:02] Talen Braumley: esme isnt you
[20:02] Talen Braumley: what the... she said she was
[20:02] Talen Braumley: !
[20:02] Grace Loudon: Pardon?
[20:03] Talen Braumley: esme i dont know her last name said she was grace
[20:03] Tsewi Eiren: well what ever is going on , Shouldnt resort to name calling
[20:04] Grace Loudon laughs - uh...yeah
[20:04] Tsewi Eiren: and if someone falsely said they were Grace then , That log should be given to Grace in privite IM
[20:05] Grace Loudon: Tsewi - the idiot responsible for it did it
[20:05] Tsewi Eiren: and should not be brought to Group Chat
[20:06] Grace Loudon: Oh I see - well thank you chat cop.
[20:06] Grace Loudon: Being as it's my sim - I'll say what I like in chat.
[20:06] Tsewi Eiren: someone wanting to cause Trouble , teheh did you make someone mad
[20:07] Tsewi Eiren: just because one is above normal shouldnt they also heed to the same codes that they enforce on their players ?
[20:07] Grace Loudon: I'm about to make you mad
[20:07] Tsewi Eiren: no you cant make me mad
[20:07] Sean Devin: No but I will
[20:07] Dyisi Oppewall holds up the big "Quite while you're ahead" sign and flails.
[20:07] Tsewi Eiren: the truth is the truth
[20:08] Grace Loudon: buh bye
[20:08] Tsewi Eiren: bye
Meanwhile, Grace suddenly stepped in and started to replace race-/guild leaders… She wasn’t happy with the vision of the chosen path of the leaders: “It does not fit the Everwind vision”. While at an earlier point, in many conversations she said she was very pleased with about how smoothly things were running. And really, those raceleaders were VERY ACTIVE.
Android Nakajima: when she spoke with my husband through IM's, she threatened to take his role as wild elf leader if he did not let someone into the group that was bad news. she specifically said that anyone is allowed to join a race group of their choice as long as "the leader of the group accepts them". she said nothing about you HAVE to accept them or else you get depromoted. She even told him she was giving him a certain amount of time to add him to the group, and if he didnt when his time was up, she was taking his role and rights away. Shes power hungry and manipulative in my eyes. Anyone who doesnt do what she wants, she threatend to eliminate. And this is not just said by over hearing, I have seen this for myself.
Magda was forced to leave and Dream (best friend of Grace) was put in her place
[9:30] Grace Loudon: Talk to me about this rp last night or whenever it took place - with the "husband" trying to "murder" the old Tari
[9:31] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: you want the rp
[9:31] Grace Loudon: No - I would like to know the idea behind it. I'm curious to know why he would even choose to go in that direction.
[9:34] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: From what i have read he is not happy with the unrest and discontent she is starting in the realm. She is clearly here to berate and belittle my rule. Every chanse she gets she is insulting to me. IC wise ofcourse. I think he sees this and thinks her to be posessed.
[9:35] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i think he is angered and going that direction cause of her attitude towards me. More people are going against her now than before its causing a huge rift in the people
[9:35] Grace Loudon: Okay here's what we need to remember.
[9:35] Grace Loudon: And you need to make sure he is clear on this.
[9:36] Grace Loudon: I *want* Dream here. Any efforts to make it difficult for her to do what I have asked her to do will result in you being removed from the role.
[9:36] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: Grace I am not gdoing this its his rp i cant control his rp
[9:36] Grace Loudon: Everwind is my sim. You are playing a role in it. If I had wanted her to take over, I would have asked you to step down alreayd.
[9:37] Grace Loudon: Yes you can - tell him to knock it off. Or I will.
[9:37] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: yes but he doesnt know ths ic
[9:37] Grace Loudon: I am not talking IC at the moment Magda.
[9:38] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: yes but i am telling you his reasoning clearly she can not be killed and when he gets in again I will talk tohim on it
[9:39] Grace Loudon: Dream is here to help - to advise - to get the elven groups in the right frame of mind. Right now, there is a great deal of animosity, unhappy people and the role is not taking hold like I had hoped. She is knowledgeable - she is experienced. Roleplay is roleplay, but you and I both know that you are being resentful out of character. I've seen the roleplay - I've seen the comments - I know the difference.
[9:39] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: Me no way
[9:39] Grace Loudon: Oh yes indeed you
[9:39] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i am still going on she is going to help me
[9:40] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: I am just giving her it back as she doe me
[9:40] Grace Loudon: What is the "if they don't like the job I'm doing..." comment about then?
[9:40] Grace Loudon: Who is "they?
[9:40] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i said that ic
[9:40] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: to soa in rp
[9:40] Grace Loudon: Who is they?
[9:40] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: what they
[9:40] Grace Loudon: Magda.
[9:40] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: where did i say that
[9:40] Grace Loudon: I am not stupid./
[9:41] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: no i honestly dont knwo where i saud they
[9:41] Grace Loudon: You said that, more than once, in the first night roleplay. Then I saw it again in the second night rp
[9:41] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: ohhhh
[9:41] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: yeah yeah
[9:41] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i put dyisi and her togther
[9:41] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: them 2 have been after me the most
[9:41] Grace Loudon sighs
[9:42] Grace Loudon: Just stop
[9:42] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: I am trying to think of a way to shut him down ic
[9:43] Grace Loudon: I can read, I know how defensive you are over this. I know, and you know, that you are crossing the line a bit. It doesn't have to be stressful - Dream is trying to stick to the rp - she was a hardass before, she's a hardass now - I told you she doesn't mince words and she's direct
[9:43] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i dont what to tell him ooc
[9:43] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: but grace even in ic you dont think mags would be defensive
[9:44] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: if you seen the rp iot seems that everything mags does isnt good enough
[9:44] Grace Loudon: Ultimately, I want the elven group in Everwind to be haughty, protective of The Magic, revered and to "rule" the sim. She's going to help you make that happen. In roleplay - she was sent by the elven goddess...that should be something held in awe - not fought
[9:44] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: I think i am acting my role accordingly
[9:44] Grace Loudon: I disagree
[9:44] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: yes i get that
[9:44] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: then how am I to act towards her you tell me
[9:45] Grace Loudon: Cooperate
[9:45] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i have done nothing but that
[9:45] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i offer my hand and she bites it
[9:45] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i have the rp
[9:45] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i tell her i will listen
[9:45] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: that i want t meet
[9:45] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: that i am open to hear her
[9:46] Grace Loudon: Yeah I do too - that's not what's coming across.
[9:46] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: but she is still insulting
[9:47] Grace Loudon: Listen, if Dream wants to insult you, she will insult you and you will know it. You are taking it far too personally - yet you claim you're good about keeping IC and OOC separate. You're not, actually. Stop taking it personally. Start cooperating. Let her help you organize and refocus the elven groups - all of them - so you can enjoy your role more without the drama
[9:48] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: If i am doing that i dont even know it.
[9:48] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: cause i thought i was acting accordingly
[9:48] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: grace she si being insulting i am not the only one that sees it
[9:49] Grace Loudon: So?
[9:49] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: So she can be insulting to me and I have to take it
[9:49] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i mean i need to rp this correctly the way you want it
[9:51] Grace Loudon: Here's what I am saying to you: You know the ultimate goal for the group on the sims. Dream is not sugary - she is abrupt and can be hard - play against that. Be respectful but be the ruler. Don't gripe about it behind the scenes so the new hubby feels the need to try to off her. Make it reasonable rp - be cooperative - work with her - stop fighting her
[9:52] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: ok how do i do this rp wise
[9:54] Grace Loudon: Were it me she was roleplaying with, I would say things like "Thank you, Dream. I am grateful to Illustree for sending you to us. We trust and welcome your advisement. Please, let us go to a more private place to talk more about what the problems are and what we must do, together, to solve them." When the people you spend time with see that you are working with it, they will to.
[9:54] Grace Loudon: It's going to create a ton of roleplay for you and all the prople in the group
[9:54] Grace Loudon: More responsibiliies, more interest in the realms...it will pay off
[9:55] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: ok i thought i was doing that but mags in charcter is not a push over. i am not taking this ooc she is acting in charcter
[9:55] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: I did try that
[9:55] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: numerous times
[9:55] Grace Loudon: You don't need to be a pushover - perhaps if you keep in mind that being smart doesn't mean being weak.
[9:55] Grace Loudon: You are the Queen of Everwind
[9:56] Grace Loudon: You love your home and its people
[9:56] Grace Loudon: You have a duty to protect it
[9:56] Grace Loudon: Here is help, sent by the goddess herself
[9:56] Grace Loudon: To help you accomplish that
[9:57] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: I will try again with her and save the rp for you. As far as Vogonic is concerned i would rather stop him ic wise then make this an ooc issue
[9:58] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: Now how would i do that short of throwing him in jail
[9:58] Grace Loudon: That's fine but he's your partner so make sure he understands the goals of this
Magda and some others made a new RP realm, far away from all EW/Grace drama… and she suddenly gets an IM from Grace…
[18:15] Grace Loudon: Really?
[18:16] Grace Loudon: You are trying to recruit from Everwind?
[18:16] Grace Loudon: Tell me, is your sim open?
[18:16] Grace Loudon: I'm sending an alt to recruit for Everwind.
[18:17] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: huh
[18:17] Grace Loudon: Don't play dumb
[18:17] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: are you nuts
[18:17] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i have not once set foot in ew since i oopened
[18:17] Grace Loudon: I have IM after Im and NCs out my ass of people complaining about people from Grym coming to EW to get players
[18:18] Grace Loudon: yes you have - on your alt
[18:18] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: thats them not me nope not even nce
[18:19] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: Im claw cause he is talking to ellie about the exact same thing
[18:19] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: i havent done a damned thing so stop harassing me and acting a fool
[18:19] Magdalenamarie Morrisey: bye grace
And this is some more bullshit from Grace:
[18:54] Grace Loudon‧: Yes, yes you are
[18:54] Grace Loudon‧: Really - to have people go to another sim?
[18:54] Grace Loudon‧: I would have helped you all - that's the cruncher
[18:54] Grace Loudon‧: You are sore losers.
[18:57] Grace Loudon‧: Oh bite me - you don't know me and you never will. i don't tolerate your BS or your drama - just go play on your sim and leave mine alone. Who do you think you're kidding with your holier than thou attitude
[18:57] Grace Loudon‧: I'm not impress
Grym was opened and recruiting new players via a notice I sent in the Events&Information group…
Then I got this IM from Grace… and remember, I was co-owner of that group at that time!
[5:37] Grace Loudon: (Saved Thu May 27 14:28:54 2010) Hey Essie - please do not post any more notices for the Grym roleplay sim - thank you:)
[5:37] Essie Radford: Why not?
[5:38] Essie Radford: every sim is entitled to present themselves
[5:38] Grace Loudon: Because it is my group. And because they have poached for players in my sim.
[5:38] Essie Radford: you should put yourself above that Grace
[5:39] Grace Loudon: If they seek out players using those methods, they are not entitled to anything
[5:39] Grace Loudon: Essie - don't think for a moment I'll be lectured.
[5:39] Essie Radford: It is a group for all public announcements....
[5:39] Grace Loudon: It is *my* group.
[5:39] Essie Radford: and lets keep the simfights out of it
[5:40] Grace Loudon: I will determine what it's used for.
[5:40] Essie Radford: it is *our* group, since you agreed to join
[5:40] Essie Radford: I am not taking sides in anything, but we should stay nutral
[5:41] Grace Loudon: No it is my group.
[5:41] Grace Loudon: Thank you, Essie.
After that convo, I found myself being removed as owner via a ticket to LL.
People that were playing in Grymm were removed from the Everwind sims…
Vog: “If you have been banned from EW for rping with us, I would like to offer you my apologies because I respect your RP and your feelings as human beings and no one should be treated that way. Let your heart lead you to the sim where you feel most at home and welcome. If you choose to stay with us I appreciate hearing any of your suggestions for the sim or RP story lines. We'll do our best to ensure your RP here is satisfying. I would love to rant about this idea of "Poaching", but I won't.”
And this is what was send in the EW groups….
*In Everwind, I need to make it clear to all of our leaders that it is my preference that that leaders of Everwind *not* have leadership/administrator/gamemaster roles at other roleplay sims. If you find you are in that position, then I will require you choose which sim you wish to commit that time to and step down from your role in Everwind, if that's your choice. it doesn't mean you can't play in Everwind by any means.
*Part of the success of Everwind is the attentiveness of its leaders. The requirements are still in place for all who step up to the responsibility and in my opinion, when your time is shared with more than one sim, the requirements of EW cannot be met. Feel free to IM me if you have questions, concerns, etc. Thank you! As always, for your help in making Everwind such a great place to play!
*Please remove the following from any groups you operate within Everwind: Randy Magnifico, Essie Radford, Mark Scofield.
Ermmm very childish don’t you think… Not that I was in any of her groups anymore. I left when the drama started. But banning an sl partner…lolll… how LOW can you get.
I think she is scared…. Cuz she sent me this:
[21:43] Grace Loudon: (Saved Fri May 28 02:42:20 2010) I'm sure they're lined up to join your group with that drama-laden introduction. It's a shame, really. You have *no clue* who I am, what I do or why i do it. I could very well stoop to your level and post my own little "whoa is me" notecard...but i won't. I'll just let you wallow down there in the mud by yourself. Have a good one, Essie.
[21:45] Essie Radford: I think YOU have *NO CLUE* who I am, what I do or WHY i do it.... Shame that ppl were right about you...... MUTED, oww and I muted the Banhammer too
I made a new group for Events/Info/Help for medieval/fantasy roleplay… and a friend of mine announced it in the ‘old’ Events group.
“A NEW RP GROUP: A group where people can find information and events from all over the medieval/fantasy roleplay grid... and also a group where people help people. We all started somewhere....
A few months ago, THIS group was bleeding to death, and it later emerged with another ACTIVE group. There was DRAMA that involved the founder, several rp-ers, realmowners and myself... SAD, yes i know! And we are now forced to SPLIT from this group... a new and IMPROVED RP group. Sign up:)”
And this was Graces reply: “Please forgive the drama folks...nothing more than a disgruntled former member who had a hard time keepinjg up with the rules.”
Very professional, don’t you think?
And here is a lil message for Grace….
“Enjoy your SL, your Realm… Enjoy that little Island you are on… and please enjoy your power-tripping. YOU ARE NOTHING. NOTHING cuz YOU don’t consider ppl’s feelings and you only care about yourself and your sl playground. You want ppl to lay at your feet… to jump around and obey like dogs! YOU ARE DEALING WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE REAL FEELINGS!!!!”
Note: ALL CONVO’S HAVE BEEN SHARED WITH ME VIA OFF-WORLD SOURCES. TOS does NOT rule the world outside Second Life
20 comments:
You have *no clue* who I am, what I do or why i do it.Well yes we do , we know that Grace Loudan is a self centered IM better then anybody else cause I forked out money to buy a HOMESTEAD sim AFTER mY former partner got smart and unpartned me (( humm I wonder why he did that )) Iam a dictator in my own little world but you need to help me pay for it you are to bow down and kiss my feet because I in all my mental deranged mind I own you. YOU play the way I want you to play or you are on my bad list. wow here Actions speak louder then words ,, and her Actions show very clearly who she is .why she does it well problary becasue she is a spoiled brat that has always gotten her way in everything she did or it maybe the other side of the flip coin someone who was always put down as a child and found a way to get the world back because she didnt have the guts to take up for herself (( as the old sayings go 1. Grow a set of Balls and get over it who CARES what your frigging childhood was like not a person on earth doesent have a childhood horror story )) Why does she do it Because she has the money but the thing she Doesnt understand or is Beyhond her mental capability is that HER little world will come crashing down ,you dont treat people as your puppets for ever and not think that it wont come back on you ,, and she Fails big time in understanding ,, She is ONLY there because LINDEN LABS has LET her be there , They as a company could at ANY TIME pull the Plug on SL and where would ALL her MONEY AND ALL HER " you dont know who Iam or why it do it shit would be in the world of lost space which is mostly what we see here is between her Ears lOST space.
I have come across some real winners in my times in SL. Grace Loudon takes the cake. I was saying to a friend of mine the other day( An ex Ever winder mind you. That is happening a lot nowadays. I think we should all wear t-shirts that say "I survived Ever wind and all I got was this lousy t-shirt.") That when people come to SL most lose their humanity. The common courtesies everyone should afford each other go out the window. The nobodies in real life become megalomaniacs in Second Life. I mean check out the definition here: A psychopathological condition characterized by delusional fantasies of wealth, power, or omnipotence.
An obsession with grandiose or extravagant things or actions. I am was very surprised not to see Grace Loudon's real life picture there. I swear it. Grace states to my friend Essie "You have no clue who I am, what I do or why I do it." Ummm yeah look at above said definition and I think we all know why you do things Grace.
I have never seen a more low brow sim owners then Grace Loudon and her little lackey Sean Devin. I am not just simply stating something for the sake of being insulting and mean. I leave that for them two. I think the turning point for me was when she called someone a twat in group chat on her alt. That was an eye opener. She is suppose to set an example. I have become a sim owner now and I can say "Yes I know how difficult the job can be, but you will not be catching calling someone a twat in group chat." Sorry my Spanish mother raised me better. Oh I have a temper sure, but am a purposeful nasty individual like Grace Loudon and Sean Devin? Oh hell no. I leave being a monster to the professionals.
Now I can sit here and list plenty of examples supporting the fact that Grace Loudon is a spoiled child that if does not get her own way does the "Throwing of the toys out of the pram" routine. Funny she accused me of that same statement. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black? I think you have all seen or heard at one time or another about her and her partners antics. All that I ask is you recognize her for what she is truthfully and make a decision regarding if you actually want to be associated with such people. Very simple really. In all reality I have her to thank for opening my role play sim (Isle of Grym) Her way of doing things finally pushed me to give people a place where they can just role play. True free form role play. As my wonderful partner stated in our own rules of our sim. "We also recognize that without an engaged player community our sims are nothing but a worthless pile of prims, and we realize you are the life of the sim." Read that comment Gracie my girl and let it sink in before your precious Ever wind becomes just that. A worthless pile of prims.
Now she will cry that I poached her players, but to tell you the truth I never took a one. I advertised to friends of mine that I would be opening a sim, much like she did when she opened her own. (I did hear that she activity perused players from different sims for her own, and her friends took people from other sims when they came in. Mind you I am not talking out of my pro verbile ass I have note cards supporting theses unheard of statements against Saint Grace) If you will all stop for one moment and think of what happens when a new sim opens. People hear about it yes, other's bring their friends with them ofcourse, but what is the sad reality when a new sim opens? It effects all the other sims that have been open. Other sims lose players to the new one. It can not be helped, As a friend of mine said to me when I was feeling a bit down over Grace's finger pointing and crying wolf. "You know I look at it this way. If the people were happy in Ever wind then they would stay even if people did ask them to join Grym... So who's fault is that?" Something to think about really.
She's a woman who has been in alot of abusive relationships in the past. When she's not in one, she deals with her feelings of inadequacy and failure by doing to others what was done to her. She becomes the bully to increase her feelings of power. Her own sim is the perfect way to do this and by contributing to it, you contribute to her control fantasy. In RL she is a gospel singer and would worry if her employers could see what she was doing and her behaviour because they would not approve.
We have all had tragedies and hardships in our lives. No one has been untouched by grief of any sort. Why not stop acting text book and try to stop the pattern of man's inhumanity to man. She being a gospel singer should know better than that. Maybe even more than most.
That is the Poorest excuses I have heard in my life, AND what in the world has her being a gospel singer have to do with the way she treats others.As is stated we ALL have horror stories in our lives , I myself have been in Abusive relationships but I Still do not go around treating others the way I was treated. She is just an over powering bully as was stated before a SPOILED BRAT !!! with delusions of grandiose , AND if she has this problem of having SOO many abusive relationships then she needs to be spending that money on Therapy instead of forking out the money for a sim where she thinks she can treat others any kind of way she can.
UPDATE:
I just got word that another person was removed from the ability to post notices in Grace's Event/Info group...
For somebody that doesn't like drama... she certainly makes alot and loves to be in the middle of it.
Yesterday...2 other ppl noticed they lost their posting rights in Grace's Events&Information group... I think she wants to shut everybody up...
senxual Pixie: First of all let me say this everwind died way back cause of same bs you pulling seeing things now it hasnt changed your still and always will be a big dumb brod grow up and quit buggin people who the hell cares where people rp obviously your jelous and afraid to be honest i would be very afraid cause your sim sucks shit along with the owners why you think people leave cause its all about you and your friends what you want your a liar when you started your sim you made promises only to break them on how we could rp how we wanted but you saw how strong the unseelie fae where so you brought in that dumb elf chick and made it your way and heres and you cant rp if your life depend on it so take your shit and bury it along with your sim and leave my mother and father and their sim alone or im reporting your ass for harrasment understand have a dredful day
[19:25] Grace Loudon: Oh honey don't even try it
[19:25] senxual Pixie: done it and am so done
[19:25] senxual Pixie: so dont even try to back talk cause all the shit comes out of your mouth
[19:25] senxual Pixie: is just going down the toilet with me
[19:25] Grace Loudon: You are not important enough to me to even read your drivel. You don't know me - you know zero about my thought process. And you will continue to know zero till they day you die chickie - take off - buh bye now
[19:25] senxual Pixie: neitheir are you
[19:25] senxual Pixie: ive said what i had to say
[19:26] senxual Pixie: harrass my familly again
[19:26] senxual Pixie: your reported
[19:26] senxual Pixie: along with your sim
[19:26] senxual Pixie: one word
[19:27] senxual Pixie: jelous much are we
[19:27] senxual Pixie: i would be to to have a sucky sim like yours lmao
Sean Devin: So... How do you like Everwind?
senxual Pixie‧: im sorry what you mean
Sean Devin‧: Are you active in Everwind?
senxual Pixie‧: oh everwind
senxual Pixie‧: you mean the sim that got destroyed after dream came to it
senxual Pixie‧: no i left after she came
senxual Pixie‧: i dont like good modders sorry
Sean Devin‧: We're not crying over it.. Thanks
senxual Pixie‧: Nietheir am i you asked i answered
senxual Pixie‧: i dont lie i always tell the thruth
senxual Pixie‧: and from what i been hearing
Sean Devin‧: I asked cos I was wanting banhammer you
senxual Pixie‧: im not only one whos not happy
senxual Pixie‧: ban me
senxual Pixie‧: sorry cant have that pleasure
Sean Devin‧: lol Why should I if youre gone...
senxual Pixie‧: i dont rp there not while dream is there
senxual Pixie‧: look
senxual Pixie‧: in all honesty
senxual Pixie‧: grace bringing dream there
senxual Pixie‧: was biggest mistake ever
senxual Pixie‧: it killed the sim
Sean Devin‧: It's not your decision...
senxual Pixie‧: can i ask why you iming me
Sean Devin‧: Yeah cos I was going to boot you..
senxual Pixie‧: when you say boot do you mean spanking
senxual Pixie‧: i like spankings
The "Slip" on here is not me. I'm Slip Barrett, and anyone is welcome to message me in Second Life to confirm this. Secondly, we all have our faults. And while Grace isn't perfect, neither am I. Whatever you all think Grace is? Creating a hate blog, and posting hateful comments is far worse than anything she could have done in real life. Seriously, go outside and get some sunshine for a change. Stop trolling the internet in your parents basement.
Well is that not special of you to comment like that. It really means nothing to anyone being hurt on second life by Grace Loudon. She is still doing it as we speak. More and more people are leaving her sim cause of her attitude and actions, and if you read this blog it has other things in it as well. As far as your comment of a hate blog ? No dear it is not. This is what may happen when you hurt people here. I am so sick and tired of people just doing whatever they feel like it to others and basically there is no way to retaliate. Well now there is. This bed right here was made by Grace and no one else. She does not want to lay in it? Well next time realize there are real people and real emotions involved in second life.
Magda - if anyone can comment on being hurt by Grace, it's me. Her and I are not friends. I was with her for two and a half years. I helped create Everwind. I even gave Everwind it's name, and wrote up the storyline/racial interaction in the very beginning along with Grace and the other leaders. Everwind was then closed to start Rivet Town. Everwind didn't "die out" the first time around. We wanted a change of scenery.
Her and I then broke up. Since Everwind was reopened, she didn't want me anywhere near it because of her current partner.
Regardless, what is being done here is no better than what she is being accused of. It's turning into a personal hate fest of her. Someone needs to take the higher road and be adults. If she hurt you all, fine, let it go and keep doing your thing. You can all choose not to associate yourselves with her home, or any of her groups.
The truth is the Truth it better to find out how someone is then to be treated the way she treats everyone ,, and its Really sad that she is doing it that way ,,, its not Hate its just telling the truth about someone that thinks they can get away with it because of their RL history ,, come on get a grip on life and by the way ,,, Most of us DONT live in our parents basements Hell my parent doesn't even HAVE a Basement so there ,, maybe she will read this and SEE what she is doing wrong and ReThink how she treats others ,,, Maybe so how can you Say its a HaTE Blog no its a TRUTH BLOG ,, Amen , MAy the Truth Set you Free ,
tchebbe - there's a reason we have a court of law, to get both sides of every story. You have a group of accusers, and a defense. If there was only one said of a story, there would be no trial. All accused would go straight to prison. It's really not medieval times, it's modern times.
Sure, all of you have valid complaints and reasoning; I have my own argument. But the fact of the matter is that we've all done things in our lives that could warrant some hateful messages on a blog. We've all mistreated someone, or hurt someone, or lied to someone. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. Everyone has done things we are not proud of.
And generally, people who pass so much hate on others are usually trying to push the attention off of themselves.
I can tell by the way some people react to this, it's an obsession with drama and gossip. Otherwise, why post? It's her group, her roleplay sims. She can do whatever she wants, and you can choose not to play there.
It's a simple concept really. What good do you hope to accomplish by doing all of this? Warning people? I highly doubt anyone will read this blog that is thinking about playing in Everwind. And if they do, all it looks like is that many people are spiteful.
A smart person passes judgement from their own experiences with a person; not from what others say about them.
I love moral discussions:)
And I invite GRACE to step up and DEFEND herself here...
Let her give her reasons for BEING SUCH A BITCH TO PPL WHO ALWAYS HELPED HER!....
Yeah Yeah, its HER sim she can do what she wants... but does that justify the FACT that she HURT many ppl???
Can she justify the fact that she used ppl...lied to them...???
Or publicly humiliated them???
"A smart person passes judgement from their own experiences with a person; not from what others say about them. " HMMMM I gave her that chance... I heard the stories...as I hear more stories about other ppl... I gave her a chance, I reached out... and what did she do???? ABUSE IT!!!
"What good do you hope to accomplish by doing all of this?" the answer is simple... THAT SHE STOPS WHAT SHE IS DOING! That she SEES what kind of a bitch she acted.
IF she would be less of a control freak, and stopped all her crap... she as a person would be respected... Her place would be more of a success than it ever was.
"We've all mistreated someone, or hurt someone, or lied to someone." Sure... I have too...and do you think I was proud of it? NO. But after hearing the stuff about it, I changed my ways and I apologized. I was big enough to ADMIT my wrong doing.
Do I think Grace CAN or WILL change her behavior? NO... cuz she has been doing this for YEARS. PPL have talked to her over and over about this... She clearly DOESNT WANT TO change. CUZ she doesnt give a damn about others. How other ppl feel...
SO GRACE...
Her if your chance...
DEFEND yourself!
and not only that,this isnt from the experience of others I Fist hand experienced her brutal behavior (Tsewi IS Tchebbe)so Im not just talking out my ass here I saw first hand her behavior and just because its YOURS DOESNT Mean a DAMN thing and yes as Essie said we have all done things but when it was brought to our Attentation then YES we WERE AND ARE womnan enough and HUMAN enough to admit that we have done wrong and humble ourselves and ask for forgiveness of those that we have done wrong,But if its NEVER brought to your attentation then how can you defend your actions as was stated maybe she will see that she is doing wrong , and you know if it was just one or two it might be over looked it might be that they would be the ones with the problem but when you Ostistes person after person after person because you are Queen of a sim or group and you do this because someone is NOT doing things the way you want them too on Their own sim well what does that tell you about that Queen ,, as is stated a CONTROL FREAK ,, and as for lying ,, NO I DO NOT ,,, Have yes when I was younger and stupid ,, as we grow I do hope that we see that these things are not worth it ,,, lieing only cause's more lieing and heartach,, Lies hurt TEN times more then the truth does anyday
This is starting to look like there's an obsession with her.
Firstly, it's Second Life. As a few of my friends say, "Harden the Fuck Up".
We all know she doesn't run her groups as good as she could. Her customer service might be a bit on the low end of the "decency spectrum".
If I come across someone who does to me what Grace did to you all? It's Second Life. If you get hurt? X out and don't log back on. The only thing that hurts me on this game is a relationship.
Grace hurt me in the aftermath of ours. But, such is life. I didn't sit around on some blog and create a plethora of hate.
If she's not worth the time, move on, do something else. SL is a huge, and there's plenty to do. Everyone is well aware of your personal dislike towards her.
If she's not worth the space or the time, why put this much effort into hating someone?
EVERWIND CLOSING PART 1:
Dear Everwind,
I started Second Life on February 14th, 2004. In 2005, I made my first roleplay sim. Since that time, I have developed dozens of sims including my own such as the Outpost of Laura, the first Everwind, Rivet Town, Tarna and Everwind II. I have hosted roleplay for 7 years now and it has been a rewarding experience affording me the opportunity to meet so many different people. I’d like to think that my efforts, and the efforts of those people who have always stayed a part of the roleplay that I bring you, have established standards for roleplay communities in Second Life that will continue for the duration of its existence. I am honored to be among the most excellent roleplayers and game masters and know that no other roleplay community will ever be able to meet the high standards we have created and maintained.
As mentioned, I have been at this a very long time. And now, it is time to stop. Though I thoroughly enjoy creating and building, I’m afraid my enthusiasm for the roleplay aspect of my creations has reached an end. It is time to try something new. Moreover, I feel strongly that there are a number of venues in Second Life that I have not yet explored and I am eager to begin tackling new projects. Everwind is in essence, my swan song for roleplay. I do not announce this with a heavy heart. I announce this with relief and anxiousness to see what is in store.
EVERWIND CLOSING PART 2:
An unfortunate aspect of Second Life’s anonymity is the maliciousness that many people portray when events like this occur. Speculation, second-guessing, assumptions, gossip and ignorance will always turn something as simple as deciding to close a sim into a silly epic event of drama. I am telling you in this note card so it is in print and accessible to all that you do not need to speculate or gossip. These are my words, and my reasons for closing Everwind:
1. I am not closing Everwind because of any one person or people.
2. I am not closing Everwind because of drama.
3. I am not closing Everwind because I’m breaking up with my partner. We have been quite smitten with each other for 2 years now and have no plans to change that.
4. I am not closing Everwind because of traffic. Everwind has always maintained consistent, comfortable traffic and quality roleplay.
5. I am not closing Everwind because of competition. Everwind never has had competition.
6. I am not closing Everwind because I cannot afford it. I can afford it. The bottom line however is whether it is something I feel worthy of paying for each month. At this point, I do not.
7. I am not closing Everwind to open a new roleplay sim. Everwind is my *last* roleplay sim. It is likely I will sell Eversea and keep Everwind, turning it into a commercial venture for stores. Those plans are not finalized.
8. I am not closing Everwind to hurt you. There is no ill will behind my actions.
9. I AM quite simply, closing Everwind because I would like to stop now.
EVERWIND CLOSING PART 3:
I want to thank so much my faithful leaders: Ellie/Saelis, Anjel/Khalid, Kelly, Prometheus, Chyna, Dim/Reyvadin, Ayra, Orla, Andrea, Mia, Unicornis, Maeve, Dasii and all those who have passed through our doors. You made Everwind such a wonderful adventure for so many people. Nothing could have been accomplished without your dedication and creativity. Thank you, sincerely.
I thank all the players who have been here since the first Everwind, all those who came when we opened the new Everwind, all those who stayed, all those who left, all those who came back…thank you for your stories and your enthusiasm for your art. When you go, be sure to take your experience and friends with you and always a little piece of the Everwind fantasy in your heart.
Finally, to my sweet and most wonderful partner, love, husband and best friend: I thank you for being so patient and tolerant. For always stepping in to help and support. For allowing me the complete freedom to do things my way and for never getting angry when my control-freak showed up. Thank you for your undying devotion and for being right there by my side when I made this decision. I love you more than you will ever know.
Thank you again everybody! Take this time to wrap up your storylines or prepare to move them elsewhere. There are a bevy of new; exciting roleplay communities that I am sure will welcome you warmly. Everwind will close for the last time on May 10, 2011. God bless you!
Grace (Devin) Loudon
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