Why People act like total jerks and bitches in SL

Why do people act like total jerks and bitches in SL?
I wondered about that question many times.

What reason would those people (even sim and groupowners) have to be rude to you... to grief you and your friends... group or sim even. It is not just rude... but they also like to pull others down, making sure that you are not worth a penny.

Sl is an anonymous way to interact with other people. And many people hide behind that. They see no limits in their behaviour. They live in their own virtual world where only their rules count and the rest is just a tool.
I am sure that they know that they act like utter morons. And what reason would there be that they just don't care about other peoples feelings? Even when they see that people are upset and hurt... why do they still keep doing the things they do?

*Some people are acting like morons cuz their parents also acted like morons...
*Perhaps something happened in school... were the SL-bullies being bullied at at school? were they a victim there? And do they feel that they now have a right be a bully themselves? Wanting to have a power that they never had when they were young?
*Perhaps the SL-bully only wants the game to be about them, and they just have no empathy to share with others. They are selfish and care only about themselves.
*Perhaps they are just jealous. Especially when they see that the things they do, do not work... but work with others...
*Perhaps they dont have any form of control in their life... and want to have total power in sl, in a playground (sim) they created.
*Perhaps they are just BORN to be evil.

I mean...
They just deny that they are evil. They defend themselves with vage reasons. And it is always 'THEY' in their eyes... 'they did this and this so I do...' And they also dont see -or perhaps just dont want to see- what they do 'wrong' that they harm people. That their actions make people cry behind their pc...
They just dont give a damn...

I know a very angry/evil person (sim-owner) in SL...
Perhaps he/she/it was abused by his/her father... mother...grandmother or girlfriend.
Perhaps the kids called him/her names in school cuz he/she was/is fat...wears glasses or had red hair...
Perhaps his/her boss threats him like a dog... and perhaps his/her partner too... and it could be that his/her hand is his/her 'best friend'

But ... Are these really valid reasons for them (they call themselves a victim) to go on and bully others?

OF COURSE NOT!!!!

They should really take a good look at themselves and change their pattern...
Do you think they will care about what you and me think about them?
Do you think they will change???
Some will... cuz there was never a person around to correct them and show them how they should behave.
And some dont and never will... simply cuz they do not want to give away the power and control they have over other ppl...